Girls Night In

the blog for single, over-40 women

How Much Time Is There?

on June 30, 2015

I originally posted this on my blog last week. It’s not specific to singles, but I thought you all might enjoy it:

My momma loved to watch the TV show Everybody Loves Raymond. There aren’t many shows she enjoyed that I can watch these days. Most of them make me sad because it reminds me how much I miss her laugh.

The other night, my aunt and uncle were in town so I spent the evening with them at my dad’s house. When I got there, the TV was on and back-to-back episodes of Everybody Loves Raymond aired while we chatted about life, family history and various and sundry other topics.

At one point, the dialog caught my attention. I’m not sure exactly what was going on or even who said the words, but I heard this–

“I always thought there’d be more time.”

“How much time is there?”

That’s the question of the ages. How much time is there? None of us knows the number of our days.

Still we humans put off for tomorrow all the time. We keep the good china in the closet until that special dinner. We dream of traveling to exotic locales but put it off until we retire, or have more money, or fit better in a bikini. We hold our love inside because we’re afraid of being hurt. We hold back because we thought there’d be more time.

How much time is there?

Only God knows the answer to that.

All we’re sure of is today. So use the good china just because it’s Wednesday. Travel even if it’s only to another part of your state. Love completely because broken hearts heal, but losing someone without them knowing how much they mean to you is irreparable.

How much time is there?

Never enough. Don’t let it go to waste.



Time Flies



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